Monday, May 04, 2009

Just a question?

During our nightly phone call, E says:

"Let me ask you something. If someone was caught on tape going through your things, what do you think should happen?"

He goes on to briefly say this was brought up at his work, but won't say if it was his things that someone went through and then tries to drop the subject, saying he doesn't want to talk about it anymore.

Back story - I snooped twice in my history with E. I'm not proud of myself for doing it, but he now knows about it, and I have not done it since. Once was when I knew he was fibbing about his age and I looked at his ID (from his pocket) when he was in the bathroom. The other time was when I was feeling very insecure and paranoid and looked at his phone to see who he'd been talking to. So when he starts casually mentioning this, I suppose because I still feel guilty for the previous things, my heart was in my throat, thinking our recently idyllic state would be interrupted.

So I calmly ask if he's accusing me of something. He says no, so I laugh and say OK, then start asking questions to try to get a feel for the situation. He says it would not do any good to confront the person, but still won't tell me if he was the victim or not. I tell him it just makes me more curious since he's being so mysterious about it, but then I drop it, since I don't want him to get upset.

This is just weird.

1 comment:

Heather said...

That is weird. I would want to get to the bottom of it too, but I'm nosy by nature. :)