I don't like it

I don't like it when I read critical statements of widows who never remarry. I read things that describe someone as too consumed with grief to properly move on, or being stuck in the past. Or when authors say "My marriage was so good I wanted to do it again." I don't mean to criticize those who have gone on to remarry, but I take that like, so if I never remarry, that means I had a bad marriage? I don't want to forget and move on. Nobody could replace or even come close to my husband.